For starters, the house we were living in SOLD! So we now moved out and living with my parents! This really is a huge blessing and JR and I are so thankful for their offer and them wanting us to live with them for the next little while. My momma is thrilled to say the least! We have only been there a couple of days and she gets so excited when we are all home. :) We really are blessed by family and the love and support we have received with this move. JR's brother Josh and a few friends came to help us move the big stuff and honestly I do not know what we would have done without their help. God Send! I am so thankful that we have a close relationship with Josh and Chasity (JR's closest in age siblings), it is such a heart warming thing.
His youngest brother and sister Ben and Abby are so sweet too and we love seeing them and hearing all about their latest adventures and discoveries. They are so excited to be Uncle and Aunt!
So, with that being said, I am super duper excited about Christmas this year! (I'm always super excited, I LOVE this time of year!) We are going to have so much fun decorating and cooking and spending time with family and friends! It will be a bit bittersweet since Mamaw Esta won't be here with us to celebrate, but I know she is rejoicing with the angels and is so joyous to celebrate with the Lord.
We have officially accepted the med school offer in GA! Yay JR! So we are in the process of searching for apartments there for July/Aug when JR starts school. It is so exciting to finally be able to move on in life and I know JR is feeling much much much better about the future!
Little Tenley Joy Byrd is growing like a weed! Besides the few issues we have had, things are going well and she is right on track (her long legs and all!) We are starting to get some baby showers scheduled as well from my work, and sweet friend! Can't wait!
Well, I suppose that is all for now!
~The Byrds
Friday, December 10, 2010
Friday, October 29, 2010
My Own Little Family
Lots of things have happened in the last little bit! Exciting things and things that have allowed us as our own family, to grow. :)
As most of you know, we are expecting our first child in April of 2011 and we could not be happier about it! Everything about this baby has been an absolute miracle! Things are going well, the baby is growing the way it should be and I am feeling the signs and symptoms of pregnancy for sure! Nausea has calmed down a bit, not totally gone, but I'm learning to cope. :) An update from the Doctor was :::::
Weight-lost some, but ok at this point.
Blood Pressure- Perfect!
Signs and Symptoms- Perfectly Normal.
How far along- 15 weeks 5 days.
Next appointment- Ultrasound to reveal the gender and to take a closer look and measurments of all the bones and organs!
On another very exciting front.....
JR has been accepted to all 3 medical schools he applied to!!
Now comes the difficult decisions of where to move our little family. We have prayed and eliminated one of the schools so now we are down to SC and GA. There is a lot to think about in this situation as both schools are great and offer different advantages as far as area demographically. We also have to consider cost of living and the amount of loans we will be able to take out. (I will be at home with the baby, so we will be dependant on his loans completely).
Very exciting and encouraging to JR that 3 schools have alreay accepted him this soon into the application process! Now, we pray and wait :)
As I mentioned before, the house is on the market. While there have been no offers yet, we have felt the need to try and pack up a little in anticipation. We have made arrangements on where to live when the house does sell, until we move in June/July but the actual moving process itself will be hectic.
We are so excited to get going with everything, after feeling like we have been on hold for 2 years things are really looking up!! We ask for lots of prayers during this time and of course, thank each and every one of you for your friendship to us. Love ya!
I'm so excited to be in this phase of life with my own little family :)
As most of you know, we are expecting our first child in April of 2011 and we could not be happier about it! Everything about this baby has been an absolute miracle! Things are going well, the baby is growing the way it should be and I am feeling the signs and symptoms of pregnancy for sure! Nausea has calmed down a bit, not totally gone, but I'm learning to cope. :) An update from the Doctor was :::::
Weight-lost some, but ok at this point.
Blood Pressure- Perfect!
Signs and Symptoms- Perfectly Normal.
How far along- 15 weeks 5 days.
Next appointment- Ultrasound to reveal the gender and to take a closer look and measurments of all the bones and organs!
On another very exciting front.....
JR has been accepted to all 3 medical schools he applied to!!
Now comes the difficult decisions of where to move our little family. We have prayed and eliminated one of the schools so now we are down to SC and GA. There is a lot to think about in this situation as both schools are great and offer different advantages as far as area demographically. We also have to consider cost of living and the amount of loans we will be able to take out. (I will be at home with the baby, so we will be dependant on his loans completely).
Very exciting and encouraging to JR that 3 schools have alreay accepted him this soon into the application process! Now, we pray and wait :)
As I mentioned before, the house is on the market. While there have been no offers yet, we have felt the need to try and pack up a little in anticipation. We have made arrangements on where to live when the house does sell, until we move in June/July but the actual moving process itself will be hectic.
We are so excited to get going with everything, after feeling like we have been on hold for 2 years things are really looking up!! We ask for lots of prayers during this time and of course, thank each and every one of you for your friendship to us. Love ya!
I'm so excited to be in this phase of life with my own little family :)
Monday, October 4, 2010
Update
Lots to update about in a very short amount of time:
Here goes...
1. Interview in FL went fabulously! We got accepted!!
2. Interviews in both SC and GA ....results pending (at the moment)
3. Baby Byrd is growing rapidly and I am learning how to deal with everything that comes with pregnancy. :)
4. Our house that we are renting is officially on the market...which is scary considering when it sells we must move. :/
5. We met our goal of selling and buying 2 newer cars to replace our old old old ones. (we got a really fabulous deal on 2 Honda's! Afordable and reliable! love it!)
6. Have had some great quality time with family and friends lately...God is so good!
7. Travel season is up and running for me with work!
8. Christmas is around the corner and I cannot wait to start decorating!!
Well thats the quick update!
Here goes...
1. Interview in FL went fabulously! We got accepted!!
2. Interviews in both SC and GA ....results pending (at the moment)
3. Baby Byrd is growing rapidly and I am learning how to deal with everything that comes with pregnancy. :)
4. Our house that we are renting is officially on the market...which is scary considering when it sells we must move. :/
5. We met our goal of selling and buying 2 newer cars to replace our old old old ones. (we got a really fabulous deal on 2 Honda's! Afordable and reliable! love it!)
6. Have had some great quality time with family and friends lately...God is so good!
7. Travel season is up and running for me with work!
8. Christmas is around the corner and I cannot wait to start decorating!!
Well thats the quick update!
Thursday, August 26, 2010
Our Family
Well, everyone! I wanted to update you on something we have kept to ourselves (and a few close family and friends).
WE ARE PREGNANT! Yes, we found out a while ago but wanted to wait until we had our first appointment!!! You can read all about it here :::::: http://ourbabybyrd.blogspot.com/
~The Byrds
WE ARE PREGNANT! Yes, we found out a while ago but wanted to wait until we had our first appointment!!! You can read all about it here :::::: http://ourbabybyrd.blogspot.com/
~The Byrds
Wednesday, August 18, 2010
Celebration!
This past weekend was my birthday weekend!! :) I was able to take off Friday so I had a nice long weekend to do NOTHING!!! That's right...nothing better than relaxation!!!
We did do a little celebration stuff like...
Went to the Melting Pot with family and some friends. If you have never been, you need to experience it! It is such a unique little place. One word...FONDUE...
The restaurant is down in the basement of an old building in downtown. It is painted dark and has very romantic lighting. The booths are even round for big parties like we had. Such a fun, classy little place.
First, you get this cheese fondue with chunks of bread, veggies, and green apples to dip. yum!
Second, a salad...which is really good.
Third, your main course, the meat and veggies. We got chicken, filet, steak, shrimp, and anothe type of steak. Then broc, mushrooms and potatoes. You cook each piece the way you like it in the fondue broth.
Fourth, (my favorite) the dessert part. You pick what typeof chocolate you want. We got turtle. It was milk choc with caramel and pecans..yummo! Then they bring out things to dip in it like...pund cake, rice krispies, cheesecake, strawberries, bananna, marshmallow, brownies, etc. It is heavenly and so fun to share food like this with friends and family!
After dinner we went to see the movie Inception! It was long, but good :)
Then, back to my parents house for the home made cake JR made!!! It was delish!
Well, that was my day...then I got a massage and mani/pedi from my hubs! So sweet :) He painted my nails and toenails and even did designs on them :) Love him and loved my birthday!
Monday, July 26, 2010
As of yesterday...
It is exactly 6 months until Christmas! Just thought I would let you all know :).
On other news:
Prayers have been answered!!! The owners of our home have allowed us to stay here without raising rent! They are putting the house on the market in about a month, so we have to work with the realtor in showing it. I'm praying it doesn't sell until next summer (once we are hopefully in medical school).
JR has an interview at one of the medical schools coming up, and we are really excited about that!
All 5 schools have requested more info from us as well, so that is GOOD news! Potential 5 interviews!
We are excited about the future, and have some things in the works, but are still praying about a lot. God can do miraculous things. Just sayin'.
I know this is short and sweet, but that's really the only update I have. We work all the time, and when we are not working we work on the house/med school stuff/time together!
On other news:
Prayers have been answered!!! The owners of our home have allowed us to stay here without raising rent! They are putting the house on the market in about a month, so we have to work with the realtor in showing it. I'm praying it doesn't sell until next summer (once we are hopefully in medical school).
JR has an interview at one of the medical schools coming up, and we are really excited about that!
All 5 schools have requested more info from us as well, so that is GOOD news! Potential 5 interviews!
We are excited about the future, and have some things in the works, but are still praying about a lot. God can do miraculous things. Just sayin'.
I know this is short and sweet, but that's really the only update I have. We work all the time, and when we are not working we work on the house/med school stuff/time together!
Thursday, July 8, 2010
Thanks Daddy
As many of you know, my job allows me to travel, meet lots and lots of new people, and really gives me some great opportunities! Today I was blessed to meet a family from South Carolina! They live close to where we have applied to med school and we were talking about the area, schools, jobs, apartments, etc. The mom is a school teacher and informed me that they are desperately needing FACS teachers...which is my degree! The conversation went on and on, and when I got back to my office I sat back and was just wowed at how God works. On a regular Thursday, doing the norm, I meet someone who could have a part in encouraging our future. It may seem insignificant to you, but to me, it was just the "God thing" I needed for today! Thanks Daddy!
Tuesday, July 6, 2010
Hot, Hot, Hot
It seems as though the past little bit has been sweltering here! I don't remember our summers here being so hot...seriously. Other than the heat, and soaring electric bills, our summer has been good. God has shown up as only He could have and now comes the difficult part, trusting Him with the rest. He changed hearts and minds, allowed a huge calamity to be avoided, blessed us financially with the things we needed, and gave us a desire to renew ourselves in Him. Things still are not great, by any means, but not on the verge of destruction at the moment.
There are still some huge prayer needs:
1. Our current rental home. We are meeting with the owners soon to discuss future renting and we really need the rent to stay the same or lower for us to be able to afford it.
2. Med School. Applications/Fee's are being sent out and we are hopeful.
3. Family issues with both sides of our families. God is the only One who can resolve this, so we are leaving it in His hands as best as we can.
4. Future housing/job/income/etc. Everything for the future is still very up in the air and we are praying that God will provide and direct us as He see's fit.
Praises!!!!!
1. We rafted the Ocoee River and had a blast! (without falling out!) This was an amazing trip and a great memory we now have together. Swimming down the icy river after we braved te rapids where the 1996 Olympics were held!
2. Reliable vehicles without going into debt or having monthly payments. Praise Him for that!!!
3. Getting back in the Word on a daily basis together...this excited me, to grow with him in the Lord!
Well, that is all for now.
~The Byrds~
There are still some huge prayer needs:
1. Our current rental home. We are meeting with the owners soon to discuss future renting and we really need the rent to stay the same or lower for us to be able to afford it.
2. Med School. Applications/Fee's are being sent out and we are hopeful.
3. Family issues with both sides of our families. God is the only One who can resolve this, so we are leaving it in His hands as best as we can.
4. Future housing/job/income/etc. Everything for the future is still very up in the air and we are praying that God will provide and direct us as He see's fit.
Praises!!!!!
1. We rafted the Ocoee River and had a blast! (without falling out!) This was an amazing trip and a great memory we now have together. Swimming down the icy river after we braved te rapids where the 1996 Olympics were held!
2. Reliable vehicles without going into debt or having monthly payments. Praise Him for that!!!
3. Getting back in the Word on a daily basis together...this excited me, to grow with him in the Lord!
Well, that is all for now.
~The Byrds~
Saturday, June 19, 2010
Prayer
For those of you who keep up with us, I have a small update, but a large request!
My family is going through a very difficult time now. Satan is using people to destroy (which he is good at, and those people are letting him do this full force). Lies and deception are flying left and right, disrespect, dishonesty, and flat out disobedience to the Lord without a second thought has been the majority of what we have been dealing with. I know people can say they are Christians, but actions speak louder than words. I do not feel that I should go into the details, all I ask is that you pray. Specifically for my sister to have her eyes opened to the lies satan is feeding her. For satan to stop and be silent. For the people involved to be stopped. For peace to rule and reign. For my parents to have wisdom and strength to protect their baby girl as GOD ordained and for those trying to undermine God's authority to be punished. Also, for JR and I, that we will have strength and know what to say, when to say it, and be supportive of my parents. I do not know why this is happening, only God does, but I do know that prayer and its power and the power of Christ in us as believers is stronger than any of satan's snares.
John 10:10-18
10The thief comes only to steal and kill and destroy; I have come that they may have life, and have it to the full.
My family is going through a very difficult time now. Satan is using people to destroy (which he is good at, and those people are letting him do this full force). Lies and deception are flying left and right, disrespect, dishonesty, and flat out disobedience to the Lord without a second thought has been the majority of what we have been dealing with. I know people can say they are Christians, but actions speak louder than words. I do not feel that I should go into the details, all I ask is that you pray. Specifically for my sister to have her eyes opened to the lies satan is feeding her. For satan to stop and be silent. For the people involved to be stopped. For peace to rule and reign. For my parents to have wisdom and strength to protect their baby girl as GOD ordained and for those trying to undermine God's authority to be punished. Also, for JR and I, that we will have strength and know what to say, when to say it, and be supportive of my parents. I do not know why this is happening, only God does, but I do know that prayer and its power and the power of Christ in us as believers is stronger than any of satan's snares.
John 10:10-18
10The thief comes only to steal and kill and destroy; I have come that they may have life, and have it to the full.
11"I am the good shepherd. The good shepherd lays down his life for the sheep. 12The hired hand is not the shepherd who owns the sheep. So when he sees the wolf coming, he abandons the sheep and runs away. Then the wolf attacks the flock and scatters it. 13The man runs away because he is a hired hand and cares nothing for the sheep.
14"I am the good shepherd; I know my sheep and my sheep know me— 15just as the Father knows me and I know the Father—and I lay down my life for the sheep. 16I have other sheep that are not of this sheep pen. I must bring them also. They too will listen to my voice, and there shall be one flock and one shepherd. 17The reason my Father loves me is that I lay down my life—only to take it up again. 18No one takes it from me, but I lay it down of my own accord. I have authority to lay it down and authority to take it up again. This command I received from my Father."
Just as God gives authority to our earthly fathers to protect their children from the thief, our earthly father will also lay down his life to protect this daughter and I pray that never has to happen.
Thank you for your prayers....if you would, please post a prayer as a comment, I know it would comfort my family to see the prayer being lifted up. If you want to post one privately, email it to me on facebook or mrs.mbyrd@yahoo.com. Thanks.
Wednesday, June 2, 2010
Things to come...
As I reflect on our life this past year, I realize that things have not happened the way I thought or even dreamed they would. Life is not the idea I had in my head when I began college, or even when I graduated college. The idealistic world of people getting along and behaving as adults has long become a dream. I allowed this to get the best of me the other day until I realized, Christ dealt with the same thing. He was shunned by his own people and yet, He still died fror them. He still remained calm when they stoned Him, beat Him, and cursed Him.
"10 Then He continued by saying to them, "Nation will rise against nation and kingdom against kingdom,
11 and there will be great earthquakes, and in various places plagues and famines; and there will be terrors and great signs from heaven.
12"But before all these things, they will lay their hands on you and will persecute you, delivering you to the synagogues and prisons, bringing you before kings and governors for My name's sake.
13"It will lead to an opportunity for your testimony.
14"So make up your minds not to prepare beforehand to defend yourselves;
15 for I will give you utterance and wisdom which none of your opponents will be able to resist or refute.
16"But you will be betrayed even by parents and brothers and relatives and friends, and they will put some of you to death,
17 and you will be hated by all because of My name.
18"Yet not a hair of your head will perish.
19"By your endurance you will gain your lives.
20"But when you see Jerusalem surrounded by armies, then recognize that her desolation is near.
21"Then those who are in Judea must flee to the mountains, and those who are in the midst of the city must leave, and those who are in the country must not enter the city;
22because these are days of vengeance, so that all things which are written will be fulfilled. "
Just as we have no idea the actual events that will come to pass, we can be sure that as long as we are standing firm in His word and His path, we will be triumphant over all evil through He who created all.
There is no big update on our life, as far as where we are going, what we will be doing, or anything like that as of yet. I do know that God has a plan and His plan will prevail over all.
~The Byrds~
"10 Then He continued by saying to them, "Nation will rise against nation and kingdom against kingdom,
11 and there will be great earthquakes, and in various places plagues and famines; and there will be terrors and great signs from heaven.
12"But before all these things, they will lay their hands on you and will persecute you, delivering you to the synagogues and prisons, bringing you before kings and governors for My name's sake.
13"It will lead to an opportunity for your testimony.
14"So make up your minds not to prepare beforehand to defend yourselves;
15 for I will give you utterance and wisdom which none of your opponents will be able to resist or refute.
16"But you will be betrayed even by parents and brothers and relatives and friends, and they will put some of you to death,
17 and you will be hated by all because of My name.
18"Yet not a hair of your head will perish.
19"By your endurance you will gain your lives.
20"But when you see Jerusalem surrounded by armies, then recognize that her desolation is near.
21"Then those who are in Judea must flee to the mountains, and those who are in the midst of the city must leave, and those who are in the country must not enter the city;
22because these are days of vengeance, so that all things which are written will be fulfilled. "
Just as we have no idea the actual events that will come to pass, we can be sure that as long as we are standing firm in His word and His path, we will be triumphant over all evil through He who created all.
There is no big update on our life, as far as where we are going, what we will be doing, or anything like that as of yet. I do know that God has a plan and His plan will prevail over all.
~The Byrds~
Tuesday, May 18, 2010
The Gates of Heaven
The gates of heaven have been rejoicing a lot this past week.
My best friends wedding went great! Even the weather cooperated for the most part. Lots of things went "wrong" in the beginning with people not being there to do hair, cake was late, flowers wilted due to heat, people got lost getting there, and it was hot with a thunderstorm coming in....but God provided and it turned out wonderful! I ended up doing Erin's hair, Ally's hair and part of mine (ally finished it). The cake did arrive right before it was time to walk down the aisle, the flowers stayed perky til after pictures, people finally found the place, and the storm didn't hit til we were all inside!!
It really was the sweetest ceremony, family and friends pulled together to make this day happen and as I walked down the aisle and listened to what Kevin said as he married them, I was reminded of the sweetness of the marriage promise I made a year ago this past Sunday. Erin was beaming, and Paul had tears running down his cheeks as they spoke their vows and made their commitment to each other in front of God and the people there. Marriage is such a gift and I am so thankful God placed J in my life to be my husband. I wouldn't change it for the world.
After the ceremony, we went and ate and danced til late! It was so much fun dancing and laughing with family and friends. Catching up with old friends and just enjoying life the way God intended it to be. I cried so much when they left for their honeymoon because they have been waiting so long for this day and Erin kept saying.."I'm numb" and she is right, on that day, nothing seems real. I know they are enjoying their honeymoon cruise and I pray they both have a moment where they can take it all in and let all those emotions out together, because that is one if the sweetest moments you can have as a newlymarried couple:)
Sunday was our 1 year Anniversary! I'm still in shock! It flew by! It was an interesting day...slept in, got up and cleaned up a little from the week before. (our house was a mess from the hectic running around!) Headed out to Pigeon Forge, where J booked a room at the Inn at Christmas Place!!! It was SOOO pretty! OUr room had a 6 ft tree, a fireplace with decorated mantel, a huge jucuzzi tub, balcony, huge shower in the bathroom, granite countertops, huge king bed, lounge area. and of course tv. It was so nice and it even smelled like Christmas!!! We enjoyed our time there, ate at one of the restaurants we ate at when we were dating :) and just enjoyed time together. The place that did our wedding cake, even delivered a cake topper to our room! Perfection! The next day we went and got some Christmas ornaments :) (our thing) and then went and got some scrapbooking stuff since all my stuff is finally here that I ordered !!! I cannot wait to get started on it all! We went shopping (window shopping) and just laughed and enjoyed our time :) It was great!
We got home, unpacked, and rested the rest of the night. Momma, Daddy, and Ally came over to help us finish off the cake and we just talked. Daddy said Mamaw wasn't doing well right now, he went to see her earlier and read her some scripture and just let her know we would all be ok, we would take care of Papaw and for her to not worry about us. He read her scripture about peace and how God goes with us and takes care of us no matter what. He said at this point, all she could do was open her eyes and look at him.
Lots of family and friends came in to see her this past weekend. Her sister and neice from Arizona, friends from around town, family, all the grandkids. She has been surrounded by family and friends all week/weekend. Last night Ally called and said Momma and Daddy were heading down at 10:30pm because she wasn't doing well at all. About 10:50 we got a call from Momma saying my Uncle called and told them she took her last breath at 10:45pm. I can't even describe the thoughts and emotions that ran through me at this point. All I could do was cry. I'm so thankful J was there to hold me and just be there. He kept saying, let it out, because he knew I didn't want to. I tried holding it in, but I just couldn't. All I could think about was all the memories we'd made with Mamaw and times we had spent with her. Thankful she was there when J and I were married, that she was there when I graduated from high school, and both colleges, and that she was there to see me be baptized. Then I remembered the very last thing she said to me ....I had told her I loved her and she looked at me and with a whispered voice said ......"I love you too".....
The gates of heaven are rejoicing with the uniting of two of God's children, the celebration of a marriage anniversary, and the homecoming of a child, a saint has arrived home to her Father.
My best friends wedding went great! Even the weather cooperated for the most part. Lots of things went "wrong" in the beginning with people not being there to do hair, cake was late, flowers wilted due to heat, people got lost getting there, and it was hot with a thunderstorm coming in....but God provided and it turned out wonderful! I ended up doing Erin's hair, Ally's hair and part of mine (ally finished it). The cake did arrive right before it was time to walk down the aisle, the flowers stayed perky til after pictures, people finally found the place, and the storm didn't hit til we were all inside!!
It really was the sweetest ceremony, family and friends pulled together to make this day happen and as I walked down the aisle and listened to what Kevin said as he married them, I was reminded of the sweetness of the marriage promise I made a year ago this past Sunday. Erin was beaming, and Paul had tears running down his cheeks as they spoke their vows and made their commitment to each other in front of God and the people there. Marriage is such a gift and I am so thankful God placed J in my life to be my husband. I wouldn't change it for the world.
After the ceremony, we went and ate and danced til late! It was so much fun dancing and laughing with family and friends. Catching up with old friends and just enjoying life the way God intended it to be. I cried so much when they left for their honeymoon because they have been waiting so long for this day and Erin kept saying.."I'm numb" and she is right, on that day, nothing seems real. I know they are enjoying their honeymoon cruise and I pray they both have a moment where they can take it all in and let all those emotions out together, because that is one if the sweetest moments you can have as a newlymarried couple:)
Sunday was our 1 year Anniversary! I'm still in shock! It flew by! It was an interesting day...slept in, got up and cleaned up a little from the week before. (our house was a mess from the hectic running around!) Headed out to Pigeon Forge, where J booked a room at the Inn at Christmas Place!!! It was SOOO pretty! OUr room had a 6 ft tree, a fireplace with decorated mantel, a huge jucuzzi tub, balcony, huge shower in the bathroom, granite countertops, huge king bed, lounge area. and of course tv. It was so nice and it even smelled like Christmas!!! We enjoyed our time there, ate at one of the restaurants we ate at when we were dating :) and just enjoyed time together. The place that did our wedding cake, even delivered a cake topper to our room! Perfection! The next day we went and got some Christmas ornaments :) (our thing) and then went and got some scrapbooking stuff since all my stuff is finally here that I ordered !!! I cannot wait to get started on it all! We went shopping (window shopping) and just laughed and enjoyed our time :) It was great!
We got home, unpacked, and rested the rest of the night. Momma, Daddy, and Ally came over to help us finish off the cake and we just talked. Daddy said Mamaw wasn't doing well right now, he went to see her earlier and read her some scripture and just let her know we would all be ok, we would take care of Papaw and for her to not worry about us. He read her scripture about peace and how God goes with us and takes care of us no matter what. He said at this point, all she could do was open her eyes and look at him.
Lots of family and friends came in to see her this past weekend. Her sister and neice from Arizona, friends from around town, family, all the grandkids. She has been surrounded by family and friends all week/weekend. Last night Ally called and said Momma and Daddy were heading down at 10:30pm because she wasn't doing well at all. About 10:50 we got a call from Momma saying my Uncle called and told them she took her last breath at 10:45pm. I can't even describe the thoughts and emotions that ran through me at this point. All I could do was cry. I'm so thankful J was there to hold me and just be there. He kept saying, let it out, because he knew I didn't want to. I tried holding it in, but I just couldn't. All I could think about was all the memories we'd made with Mamaw and times we had spent with her. Thankful she was there when J and I were married, that she was there when I graduated from high school, and both colleges, and that she was there to see me be baptized. Then I remembered the very last thing she said to me ....I had told her I loved her and she looked at me and with a whispered voice said ......"I love you too".....
The gates of heaven are rejoicing with the uniting of two of God's children, the celebration of a marriage anniversary, and the homecoming of a child, a saint has arrived home to her Father.
Wednesday, May 12, 2010
My Mamaw
This update is not one about us, unfortunatley it is an urgent request for you to lift up my Mamaw in prayer.
Here is a brief run down of what has happened this year:
January: She lived at home where she has lived alone for many many years. She began to talk about odd dreams she has had and spoke to each of her kids and grandkids about their salvation and its surity.
February: She became obsessed with checking on us many time a day and telling us about her ever present dreams.
March: She began viewing the TV and news as her life and the world around her began to scare her.
April: She was placed into a nursing home and monitored for very very very strange behavior. Her oxygen levels were low, CO2 levels are high. Everything now has gone to crazy talk.
May: Crazy talk still, seemed to be making some progress and then..
May 10th: She was taken to the hospital because her CO2 levels were so high she was in and out of a coma like state.
May 11th: The Doctors predicted she has 12-48 hours left. She will essentially soffocate to death. :(They have tried all they can, but her CO2 levels are still elevated beyond repair. She drifts in and out and has lost down to 90 lbs.
We went to visit her last night and I am so thankful we did. I hate to even think it, but it may be the last time I see my Mamaw living. :( Before we arrived, she was in and out of a coma like state and when we arrived, she woke up enough to talk to us. I really think it was a God thing, to be able to talk to her for a few moments when she was clearer than she has been in a while. Some of the things she said don't make sense to us now, but maybe they will someday...
*Words of Mamaw Esta, May 11th, 2010*
To JR- You are going to be a good Doctor, I'm so glad you are here
To Allison- You will be a good nurse and I wish you could stay and take care of me
To Me- You are going to have a little boy. Take your vitamins and stay healthy. (not sure where she got that idea?! haha)
To JR and I- If you all need anything, please let me know.
TO Momma- You are my daughter and I have a good son.
To Daddy- You are a good son and have a good family.
To Papaw- I want to marry him, he takes good care of me.
She said other random things, but most were heartfelt and sincere.
We hugged her and headed home late last night and all I could think was, is that going to be the last time? ever?
I ask that you pray with me:
1. That God's will be done; whether its healing, or a peaceful/painless death.
2. That our family will pull together and not let any part of this cause a struggle within.
3. For my Daddy, Aunt, and Uncle as they watch their Mom slowly fade away and have to make some very difficult decisions in the next little bit.
4. For my Papaw.....I can't imagine watching the love of your life go through something like this. Also for his health and encouragement as he sits with her and pours himself into her care.
5. For all 7 grandkids...I am the 2nd oldest and we are all very close to her. She taught and instilled in me the love of cooking:)
That is all for now. Daddy just informed me they have to make some decisions as far as artificial life support or letting her go. At most the Docs are saying weeks WITH the artificial life support, but God can and still does miracles. Please Pray.
Thanks
Here is a brief run down of what has happened this year:
January: She lived at home where she has lived alone for many many years. She began to talk about odd dreams she has had and spoke to each of her kids and grandkids about their salvation and its surity.
February: She became obsessed with checking on us many time a day and telling us about her ever present dreams.
March: She began viewing the TV and news as her life and the world around her began to scare her.
April: She was placed into a nursing home and monitored for very very very strange behavior. Her oxygen levels were low, CO2 levels are high. Everything now has gone to crazy talk.
May: Crazy talk still, seemed to be making some progress and then..
May 10th: She was taken to the hospital because her CO2 levels were so high she was in and out of a coma like state.
May 11th: The Doctors predicted she has 12-48 hours left. She will essentially soffocate to death. :(They have tried all they can, but her CO2 levels are still elevated beyond repair. She drifts in and out and has lost down to 90 lbs.
We went to visit her last night and I am so thankful we did. I hate to even think it, but it may be the last time I see my Mamaw living. :( Before we arrived, she was in and out of a coma like state and when we arrived, she woke up enough to talk to us. I really think it was a God thing, to be able to talk to her for a few moments when she was clearer than she has been in a while. Some of the things she said don't make sense to us now, but maybe they will someday...
*Words of Mamaw Esta, May 11th, 2010*
To JR- You are going to be a good Doctor, I'm so glad you are here
To Allison- You will be a good nurse and I wish you could stay and take care of me
To Me- You are going to have a little boy. Take your vitamins and stay healthy. (not sure where she got that idea?! haha)
To JR and I- If you all need anything, please let me know.
TO Momma- You are my daughter and I have a good son.
To Daddy- You are a good son and have a good family.
To Papaw- I want to marry him, he takes good care of me.
She said other random things, but most were heartfelt and sincere.
We hugged her and headed home late last night and all I could think was, is that going to be the last time? ever?
I ask that you pray with me:
1. That God's will be done; whether its healing, or a peaceful/painless death.
2. That our family will pull together and not let any part of this cause a struggle within.
3. For my Daddy, Aunt, and Uncle as they watch their Mom slowly fade away and have to make some very difficult decisions in the next little bit.
4. For my Papaw.....I can't imagine watching the love of your life go through something like this. Also for his health and encouragement as he sits with her and pours himself into her care.
5. For all 7 grandkids...I am the 2nd oldest and we are all very close to her. She taught and instilled in me the love of cooking:)
That is all for now. Daddy just informed me they have to make some decisions as far as artificial life support or letting her go. At most the Docs are saying weeks WITH the artificial life support, but God can and still does miracles. Please Pray.
Thanks
Tuesday, May 4, 2010
The Right Way
I have been reading through Colossians this week and I thought I would share my thoughts on His Word. :)
Colossians 1 (New American Standard) My thoughts are Bolded after the verse:)
1 Paul,an apostle of Jesus Christ, by the will of God, and Timothy our brother,2 To the saints and faithful brethren in Christ who are at Colossae: Grace to you and peace from God our Father. *I love how it open with grace and peace. Not only grace and peace from the person writing it, but also by saying from God our Father really emphasises that this letter is written on His behalf*
3 We give thanks to God, the Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, praying always for you,* Praying always...I hope I am able to say that someday, that I pray ALWAYS for someone, meaning you are in constant connection with the Lord, never hanging up on my end with an "amen" and also, truly thanking God for someone with my whole heart, not just my words.*
4 since we heard of your faith in Christ Jesus and the love which you have for all the saints; * having such a love, a Christian love that bonds together all believers*
5 because of the hope laid up for you in heaven, of which you previously heard in the word of truth, the gospel 6 which has come to you, just as in all the world also it is constantly bearing fruit and increasing, even as it has been doing in you also since the day you heard of it and understood the grace of God in truth; *It is so exciting to me to know that the gospel, once understood in truth and accepted by grace and faith, continues to grow inside every believer and bears fruit which is evident for all to see*
7just as you learned it from Epaphras, our beloved fellow bond-servant, who is a faithful servant of Christ on our behalf,8and he also informed us of your love in the Spirit.9For this reason also, since the day we heard of it, we have not ceased to pray for you and to ask that you may be filled with the knowledge of His will in all spiritual wisdom and understanding, *That is my prayer, that I will not cease to pray and that I will be filled with the knowledge of God's Will with spiritual wisdom and understanding, knowing that He controls every miniscule detail of my daily life and has purposed it for a certain reason.*
10 so that you will walk in a manner worthy of the Lord, to please Him in all respects, bearing fruit in every good work and increasing in the knowledge of God;* Increasing in knowledge. walking WORTHY of the Lord. Yes, He died for us but we are still unworthy of it all and striving daily to walk worthy of HIM is a challenge. I have had many discussions lately about people that are Christians bearing fruit. Bearing fruit is a constant thing, not occasional. We are commanded to, its not a choice. While we bear fruit, we are to grow in Him...the fruits of the Spirit are love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, self control.*
11 strengthened with all power, according to His glorious might, for the attaining of all steadfastness and patience; joyously 12 giving thanks to the Father, who has qualified us to share in the inheritance of the saints in Light.* When we do this, He will strengthen us with His power according to His might, not so we can boast but so we are able to continue on with joy in our hearts, thanking Him. Thanking GOD who designated us to share in His inheritance!!!! How awesome is that. If we abide in Him, He will give us the strength to continue. Does that mean we will never feel over whelmed? Unfortunately, no. :( We will feel like giving up at times, but that is when we must cling to Him, knowing that "His stength is perfected in our weaknesses." (2 Corinthians 12:9)So when you have a bad day and feel like throwing your hands up and saying "ah, pooie on it all!" remember, do it the right way, He has equipped you and through HIM alone will you stand! Not if that doesn't excite you, I don't know what will!!! :)
~pray for me as I pray for you~
Colossians 1 (New American Standard) My thoughts are Bolded after the verse:)
1 Paul,an apostle of Jesus Christ, by the will of God, and Timothy our brother,2 To the saints and faithful brethren in Christ who are at Colossae: Grace to you and peace from God our Father. *I love how it open with grace and peace. Not only grace and peace from the person writing it, but also by saying from God our Father really emphasises that this letter is written on His behalf*
3 We give thanks to God, the Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, praying always for you,* Praying always...I hope I am able to say that someday, that I pray ALWAYS for someone, meaning you are in constant connection with the Lord, never hanging up on my end with an "amen" and also, truly thanking God for someone with my whole heart, not just my words.*
4 since we heard of your faith in Christ Jesus and the love which you have for all the saints; * having such a love, a Christian love that bonds together all believers*
5 because of the hope laid up for you in heaven, of which you previously heard in the word of truth, the gospel 6 which has come to you, just as in all the world also it is constantly bearing fruit and increasing, even as it has been doing in you also since the day you heard of it and understood the grace of God in truth; *It is so exciting to me to know that the gospel, once understood in truth and accepted by grace and faith, continues to grow inside every believer and bears fruit which is evident for all to see*
7just as you learned it from Epaphras, our beloved fellow bond-servant, who is a faithful servant of Christ on our behalf,8and he also informed us of your love in the Spirit.9For this reason also, since the day we heard of it, we have not ceased to pray for you and to ask that you may be filled with the knowledge of His will in all spiritual wisdom and understanding, *That is my prayer, that I will not cease to pray and that I will be filled with the knowledge of God's Will with spiritual wisdom and understanding, knowing that He controls every miniscule detail of my daily life and has purposed it for a certain reason.*
10 so that you will walk in a manner worthy of the Lord, to please Him in all respects, bearing fruit in every good work and increasing in the knowledge of God;* Increasing in knowledge. walking WORTHY of the Lord. Yes, He died for us but we are still unworthy of it all and striving daily to walk worthy of HIM is a challenge. I have had many discussions lately about people that are Christians bearing fruit. Bearing fruit is a constant thing, not occasional. We are commanded to, its not a choice. While we bear fruit, we are to grow in Him...the fruits of the Spirit are love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, self control.*
11 strengthened with all power, according to His glorious might, for the attaining of all steadfastness and patience; joyously 12 giving thanks to the Father, who has qualified us to share in the inheritance of the saints in Light.* When we do this, He will strengthen us with His power according to His might, not so we can boast but so we are able to continue on with joy in our hearts, thanking Him. Thanking GOD who designated us to share in His inheritance!!!! How awesome is that. If we abide in Him, He will give us the strength to continue. Does that mean we will never feel over whelmed? Unfortunately, no. :( We will feel like giving up at times, but that is when we must cling to Him, knowing that "His stength is perfected in our weaknesses." (2 Corinthians 12:9)So when you have a bad day and feel like throwing your hands up and saying "ah, pooie on it all!" remember, do it the right way, He has equipped you and through HIM alone will you stand! Not if that doesn't excite you, I don't know what will!!! :)
~pray for me as I pray for you~
Monday, May 3, 2010
Happiness
Lots of things going on this spring/summer!!
I am so excited about all the happiness this summer and the tears of joy that I know will escape me.
My prayer is that no matter what the circumstance I am able to portray Colossians 3: 12-15 "So, as those who have been chosen of God, holy and beloved, put on a heart of compassion, kindness, humility, gentleness, and patience; bearing with one another and forgiving one another, whoever has a complaint against anyone, just as the Lord forgave you, so also should you. Beyond all these things, put on love which is the perfect bond of unity. Let the peace of Christ rule in your hearts, to which indeed you were called in one body and be thankful."
Then closing with verse 17 "Whatever you do in word or deed, do all in the name of the Lord Jesus, giving thanks through Him to God the Father."
Have a fabulous day!
~pray for me as I pray for you~
I am so excited about all the happiness this summer and the tears of joy that I know will escape me.
My prayer is that no matter what the circumstance I am able to portray Colossians 3: 12-15 "So, as those who have been chosen of God, holy and beloved, put on a heart of compassion, kindness, humility, gentleness, and patience; bearing with one another and forgiving one another, whoever has a complaint against anyone, just as the Lord forgave you, so also should you. Beyond all these things, put on love which is the perfect bond of unity. Let the peace of Christ rule in your hearts, to which indeed you were called in one body and be thankful."
Then closing with verse 17 "Whatever you do in word or deed, do all in the name of the Lord Jesus, giving thanks through Him to God the Father."
Have a fabulous day!
~pray for me as I pray for you~
Wednesday, April 28, 2010
Byrd Family
I created this blog to keep everyone updated! Just a way to stay in touch and follow us as we begin our life together and the crazy world of Medical School! :)
Feel free to comment and let us know where you are and what you are doing as well. We'd love to hear from you!
Our status so far.....
Still waiting on Medical School acceptance, but very hopeful!! Keep us in your prayers as we seek the Lord for our future move.
Ways to pray for us:
1. Medical school
2. A Job for Michelle when we do move.
3. A house or apartment for the future.
4. That we continue to seek His face and direction in everything for our future.
5. Finances and student loans.
Feel free to comment and let us know where you are and what you are doing as well. We'd love to hear from you!
Our status so far.....
Still waiting on Medical School acceptance, but very hopeful!! Keep us in your prayers as we seek the Lord for our future move.
Ways to pray for us:
1. Medical school
2. A Job for Michelle when we do move.
3. A house or apartment for the future.
4. That we continue to seek His face and direction in everything for our future.
5. Finances and student loans.
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